Most guys have experienced the unpleasant sensation colloquially referred to as \u201cblue balls.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The pain, discomfort, or heavy feeling that comes from getting super excited and not getting off isn\u2019t unique to men…even though they\u2019re pretty much the only ones who complain about it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You might be confused. I mean, women don\u2019t have testicles, so how could they get blue balls? Let\u2019s explore that point a bit further.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Blue balls is simply a phrase used to describe pain that happens from prolonged arousal<\/strong>. Because men are more vocal about it, the slang phrase used to describe it points to where men experience the pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When a person gets aroused, male or female, blood rushes to the sex organs. It\u2019s not until orgasm that this blood is released\u2014via contractions from the testicles (male) or uterus (female). <\/p>\n\n\n\n The build-up of blood feels a bit like a pulsating, aching bruise. Over minutes to hours, depending on the level of frustration and a person\u2019s individual anatomy, the blood is slowly released and the pain fades away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may be wondering, if this happens to women, why don\u2019t they speak up? To better understand, let\u2019s first examine why guys are so vocal about it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Many men complain loudly about \u201cblue balls\u201d so that they\u2019re not left…wanting. Younger men, in particular, don\u2019t want a night of messing around to end without actual sex occuring. By voicing concern over pain, they hope to win the sympathy of a potential lover who could then satisfy their desires. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The entire sex situation is different for women. For starters, women typically control how far a sexual encounter goes. If they\u2019re down, they\u2019re likely to get what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The next factor is a bit less fortunate. As a whole, men are bad at getting women off<\/strong>. Most guys assume that their penises are going to get her there, when that\u2019s pretty unlikely without a big D or some simultaneous clit stimulation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n In essence, women are more accustomed to feeling frustrated after sex. It\u2019s pretty normal…but they don\u2019t want to hurt a man\u2019s pride, so they don\u2019t mention their lack of satisfaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, women are used to pain down there, and society expects them to suffer in silence. When they quietly deal with pain every month, doing so after a mediocre sexual encounter comes easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I think we can all agree that blue balls suck, so why should we allow our female lovers to deal with this pain? If you\u2019re at all good in the sack, or if you want to be, the answer is that you shouldn\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\nWhy Doesn\u2019t Anyone Ever Talk About Female Blue Balls?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What You Can Do to Get Her There<\/h2>\n\n\n\n