{"id":853,"date":"2021-09-23T20:51:15","date_gmt":"2021-09-23T20:51:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.phalogenics.com\/articles\/?p=853"},"modified":"2021-09-23T20:51:19","modified_gmt":"2021-09-23T20:51:19","slug":"love-life-fizzled-out-why-your-wife-or-girlfriend-wont-have-sex-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.phalogenics.com\/articles\/love-life-fizzled-out-why-your-wife-or-girlfriend-wont-have-sex-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Life Fizzled Out? Why Your Wife or Girlfriend Won\u2019t Have Sex With You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Everyone loves the beginning of a relationship. The sexual tension. The animal urge to rip the clothing right off of your partner<\/strong>…even when it\u2019s neither the time nor the place for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fast forward a year or two down the road, and it can feel like your partner\u2019s desire for sex is far less than for a good sandwich or a medicre TV show. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, why does the lust seem to fade over time?<\/strong>  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

While it\u2019s tempting to chock it up to longevity and say it\u2019s inevitable, there are too many couples with healthy sex lives to accept that conclusion. 
We\u2019re going to reveal why your love life has stagnated,<\/strong> along with what you can do to get it back to where it once was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re Having Less Sex Because It\u2019s Boring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This might be hard to hear…but you know why you\u2019re having less sex<\/strong>. It\u2019s because the sex is no longer interesting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you do the same-old day after day, you can\u2019t expect the same reaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think of it like your favorite food. If it\u2019s the only thing you ever eat, eventually, you\u2019re going to want something else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t get too down on yourself. While it\u2019s inevitable that doing the same thing is going to lead to diminishing returns, that doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t reignite the spark between you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Trick to Rekindling the Sexual Fire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There is only one thing that will save your sex life\u2026<\/strong>and that\u2019s spicing it up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To have fun and exciting sex again, well, you need to find a way to bring novelty to the table.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And while it might be tempting to just imagine your raunchy fantasies and try to play those out, that\u2019s missing the point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You need to find ways to make sex more rewarding for your wife or your girlfriend<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The best way to do this is to have a conversation with your lover.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One where you sit down, express your love and appreciation for them and your relationship, and then bring up how you\u2019d like to work on rekindling your sex life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t skip the step where you highlight the parts of the relationship that you love…you don\u2019t want to start off this talk by making your partner feel badly about themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then, ask your partner what you could do to make sex more fun for her. Are there sex toys she\u2019d like to bring into the game? A new position she\u2019d like to try? Something more that you could do before or during sex? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To help break the ice, come up with one thing you\u2019d like to try. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro tip\u2014have your thing be something that doesn\u2019t make her feel less attractive or desired. Don\u2019t suggest watching porn during sex or bringing someone new into the bedroom…not unless she brings it up first. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Good ideas are sex toys or skimpy outfits you\u2019d like to see her wear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Work together to come up with a novel sex playbook<\/strong>. Each week, try out one of your ideas to see how it goes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As they say, variety is the spice of life. If you want good sex with your partner, you need to embrace the human need for novel experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are You Bringing Enough to the Table?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When couples stop having sex, the man often wonders if it\u2019s because he\u2019s not as endowed as he\u2019d like to be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But think of it this way\u2014your partner picked you<\/strong>. And I\u2019m sure they knew how big your dick was when they made their choice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

While your lover embraced what God gave you, that doesn\u2019t mean that they wouldn\u2019t enjoy something bigger. Especially given the human love of new things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you think that a bigger penis would better please your lover, you\u2019re probably right. After all, studies support the whole bigger-is-better thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine the look on your lover\u2019s face when your penis slowly becomes longer and thicker. That\u2019s what you\u2019ll experience if you follow the Phalogenics Male Enhancement program<\/a>. With regular commitment, your penis can grow inches in both length and girth. Click here<\/a> to find out more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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