Are you looking for ways to spice up your sex life? Or maybe you simply want to make sure your lady is getting what she needs in bed?
Pleasing a woman comes down to a little patience and knowing how to hit the right buttons. Intercourse should never be one-sided. It's important that both partners are pleased at the end of the night...or afternoon...or morning.
Get your pencils out and take notes. This article will give you 6 ways to help you better satisfy a woman.
The hours leading up to the actual sex can be just as exciting as intercourse itself.
If you are going to be spending the day together, find little ways to tease your woman. Gently play with her hair, trace patterns on her skin, or grab her by the waist. Initiating physical contact throughout the day will start to warm her up.
It will also make her feel comfortable and close to you. Women want to feel like they're desirable, and initiating light physical contact throughout the day can help you achieve this.
If you've been teasing her throughout the day there's a good chance you'll just want to rip each other's clothes off when you get home.
Instead, take it slow. Start with a foot rub while you watch some tv. Then move to massaging her legs and shoulders. Keep her feeling comfortable and relaxed.
Kissing is another great foreplay method that many couples skip over. Sometimes it can be really arousing to make out like you're in high school again. Spend a few minutes just kissing before taking any clothes off.
You want her thoroughly warmed up and ready before the intercourse begins.
If you're usually the one to take charge in your relationship, allow your woman to take charge for a change.
Being the dominant one in the bedroom can be exhilarating. With her in the lead, she will be able to control the pace and do what feels best.
When a woman is on top she can move in a way so that she can hit all of the right angles. When you let a woman take charge you're giving her a chance to control her own pleasure.
If both of you consent, you could try other power dynamics in your sexual life such as BDSM. BDSM stands for bondage, domination, submission, and masochism. BDSM could be a new and exciting way to satisfy a woman in the bedroom.
With BDSM it's important to have a safe word for when things get too intense for either partner. You never want to push your partner past their limit.
The majority of women can not climax from vaginal penetration alone. This is why it's important you stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.
The clitoris is packed with about 8,000 nerve endings that make contact extremely pleasurable. You could try massaging her clit with your hand while you're inside of her. Be gentle, it is very sensitive.
When you touch her clit imagine you are painting a painting and use soft but firm strokes. Don't press down too hard or try to move too quickly or it could become painful for her.
If you focus on your woman's clitoris she will be one happy lady.
Far too often the man doesn't reciprocate oral sex with his woman.
Girls enjoy oral as much as you do. Initiate oral sex with her before she even goes down on you. Make her satisfied first and then she can focus on performing oral on you.
Oral sex is a great time to focus on her clit. Trace little circles around her clit with your tongue, lick her inner thighs, and trace your tongue around her vulva.
It's OK if you feel lost down there at first. Ask her what she likes. Or tell her to tell you when something feels especially good.
Communicating during sex shouldn't be embarrassing. In fact, it should be a healthy part of all adult intercourse. The more warmed up you get her with your tongue, the more prepared her body will be for penetration. When her body is nice and ready the sex will be better for both of you.
Some of the best bonding you can have with a woman is those few minutes after sex.
Cuddling after sex will help your further satisfy a woman. She will feel cared for and not simply used like a sexual object. Nearly all women love the feeling of being held as it releases positive hormones into the body.
The length of time you cuddle will depend on your relationship. Just be sure you hold her for a couple minutes at least. During this time your heart rates are coming down and you can relax, be quiet, and rejuvenate.
Next time you have intercourse use these tips to better satisfy a woman.
If you take your time with her, figure out what she likes, and let her take charge sometimes you will be in good shape.
Remember that sex should always be consensual. Trying new things should be cleared with both partners before they're tried. Keeping that in mind, enjoy these tips and have a little fun.
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